It’s more of a problem for women on the online dating apps, where exchanging of intimate images marks a certain point in the relationship. If one person thinks this point has arrived before the other does, there can be some tension.

Personally, I think it’s gross. A bit of sexy texting is fun, and the fantasy is all in the mind.

But for some reason men think that the mere sight of their bits will turn a woman – or another man, apparently – into a pool of hormones. Not this woman.


Britni Pepper has always enjoyed telling stories. About people, places and pleasures.

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