Nice turn of phrase there.
A well-argued point. Sometimes men may not want sex for an intellectual rather than a physical reason. Philosophy or religion may be guiding them, regardless of what their body's desire to pass on its DNA is saying.
And, in this age, there are more gender considerations than men and women getting hot together. There are same-sex encounters, and there are trans or non-binary factors. *Both* adults have to consent, and taking the other for granted is a road to trouble.
Thank you for your thoughtful piece.